I AM GETTING A RAISE
LIKE AN HONEST TO GOODNESS ONE NOT A HEY IT’S THE ANNUAL REVIEW TIME LET’S GIVE HER A BULLSHIT RAISE ONE
okay so my boss submitted paperwork for me to get a raise and I just got word today that the CTO (Chief Technology Officer, IT head honcho guy) approved it and I aM GETTING A RAISE
My boss said that it was only the right thing to do since I’m very underpaid and I’ve been turning out fantastic work and basically the sun shines out my ass and yeah~
I cannot believe this is actually happening, I will be so much less stressed and will have money for things like new tires and oil changes and brake jobs on my car and laundry and to put aside for us moving in May and just so much omfg I am SO HAPPY RIGHT NOW~
And the most astounding thing of all of this isn’t that I got it and it’s actually happening, it’s that when my boss told me that it is actually approved and happening, my first, instinctual, immediate thought was “DAMN RIGHT YOU’RE GONNA GIVE ME A RAISE BECAUSE I AM PERF AND DESERVE THIS AND HAVE WORKED MY ASS OFF GO ME” and that is just a massive victory so go me~
I know I’ve reblogged this before but I still cannot stop laughing so here have it again~
I am not posting your ask because it might be triggering (please don’t fret about that, I am not easily triggered anymore, I just don’t want to trigger my followers), so I will answer it here:
Firstly, please don’t worry about being a bother. You are NEVER a bother, ever.
Okay now that that’s said, here’s my advice. I know what it is to be so anxious about asking for help that it’s unbearable, but please know that I am so proud of you for even wanting help. That’s a huge first step, and I am so proud of your courage for wanting to get help.
I might try talking to your mum again, and explaining the situation just as you explained it to me. Explain to her about your behaviors and why you feel that they’re bad and why you feel that you need help to stop doing them, as you realize they’re unhealthy. If your mum still doesn’t believe you, I really would try a teacher or a counselor. I know that it can be ridiculously anxiety provoking, but sometimes someone who can be more objective and can listen calmly to the points that you provide may be helpful.
I really and truly hope that you can get the help you need, no matter how you come by it. You deserve a full, healed, healthy, and whole life, and all the help in the world to get you there. Please don’t hesitate to send me another ask if you need or want to talk, I am always here for you, and you are never, EVER a bother to me.
Good luck, sweetheart. <3
Guys today at art class we had to describe a painting and when I SAW THE PAINTING I LAUGHED SO HARD I COULD NOT BREATH
WHAT THE F*CK
#bloop hoohoo got ur nipnop
OH MY FRICK I’M HGONNA DIE
I’m laughing so hard right now I am an artist and I’m laughing about bloop hoohoo got ur nipnop
if u are a cis girl, here are some things not to say to trans girls or transfeminine ppl
- you do makeup better than I do!
- you have better legs than I do!
- you’re prettier than I am!
these compliments are just a way the disguise your shock at the femininity of “fake” women, compared to you, a “real” woman. stop.